What it is

A planned conversation with someone.

You set when you're free. We find someone compatible and propose a meeting. Everyone says yes. At the scheduled time, you meet by video. You take turns talking and listening. That is the whole product.

How it works

Four steps.

1. 01Sign in with Pharmacopedia, your account across Oyami, the wiki, and Trykl.
2. 02Tell us when you're free, and what kind of person you'd like to meet.
3. 03We propose a meeting. Everyone has to say yes.
4. 04Meet by video. Listen carefully. Take turns.

On listening

An art and a discipline.

Careful listening is an art and a discipline that requires practice and close attention. Centered around acceptance and curiosity, keeping our judgments to ourselves. We teach it before your first meeting. We do not enforce it. There is no AI in the room. The work rests on the people who showed up.

What we do not do

A short list, in plain words.

• We do not record.
• We do not transcribe.
• We do not put an AI in the room.
• We do not run ads.
• We do not track you.
• We do not rate you against other people.

On stopping

You can leave at any time.

You can stop a meeting before it starts or while it is happening. The others are told. Vetoing is heavy by design; there is also a lighter Decline, which costs nothing and signals nothing. Excessive vetoing pauses your matching for a while; the thresholds are visible in your settings.

Cost

Free.

No ads. No paid tiers. Donations possibly later.